STOP WASTING ENERGY ON RELATIONSHIP CONFLICTS THAT NEVER GET BETTER.
Countless men are struggling in romantic relationships and no one seems to understand WHY this is so common or how to fundamentally change the dynamic. Especially when conflicts have a tendency to blow up and never resolve or fully repair.
Well…
After many years and tens of thousands of dollars spent on therapy, coaching, men’s groups, retreats, study, and alternative practices, I’ve developed a simple and powerful 21-day process that actually works.
It’s built for men in committed relationships with women that are struggling to earn her respect, patience, compassion, and trust.
What does this look like?
⚠️ In a fight, she’ll say whatever she wants and blow up when you try to say your piece.
⚠️ When either of you are stressed, you feel like you don’t even get a second to think about what you want to say.
⚠️ If she’s hurt, she doesn’t care that you made a mistake, and you keep having to apologize 100 times or more.
⚠️ In general, you feel like everything you’re doing is being watched and judged, and you’ll probably be criticized for “doing it wrong” later.
And if you’re trying to fix one or more of these issues in your relationship, I want you to know that it can change if YOU take action.
BECOME A FOUNDING MEMBER
After leading men’s circles and working with men and couples in relationship for years, I’ve discovered something I don’t think anyone has actually addressed effectively. And it’s this:
The real reason your relationship feels so hard sometimes is because…
As a boy, you probably learned to prioritize others at the expense of your own wellbeing…
and the strategies you used as a boy don’t help you as a man in relationship:
🛑 Sucking it up and staying silent? Doesn't change anything.
🛑 Pretending her words don’t hurt and just moving on? Makes you resentful.
🛑Running away when she loses control? Gets you nowhere.
🛑 Blowing up because you can’t take anymore? Only makes things worse.
🛑Sacrificing your needs while enduring criticism and disrespect? Keeps you in the same cycle.
Your romantic relationship doesn’t have to be this way, and you have the power to change it YOURSELF, right now.
If what I’ve described is even close to what your relationship is like, you’re being initiated into partnership in a way that most men are too afraid to try.
Most men just default to using the skills they learned as boys — to “suck it up, stop being a pussy, and deal” — especially when things are getting hard and their loving partner suddenly isn’t acting so kind.
It’s why divorce rates are so high.
It’s why men struggle to date.
It’s why we are where we are collectively, as a society.
And here you are, doing what you’ve always done in relationships and expecting a different outcome…
Sacrificing your time, money, and resources so others can feel good and loved DOESN’T NEED TO COME at the expense of your needs, freedom, and well-being.
Is it actually a mystery why things feel so hard sometimes?
Most men struggling in relationship often rely on the skills we developed as middle schoolers when things get hard, when conflict arises, and when we’re tired of feeling unsupported, unappreciated, and disrespected.
If you’ve ever blown up, wanted to punch a wall, yelled something you didn’t mean deep down, it’s not because you’re BAD…
It’s because..
Most adult men these days never learned what a mature conflict looks like.
Most of us never had a model for a man that authentically expresses himself, his needs, and his emotions, and as a result…
Most men struggling in relationship often rely on the skills we developed as middle schoolers when things get hard, when conflict arises, and when we’re tired of feeling unsupported, unappreciated, and disrespected.
If you’ve ever blown up, wanted to punch a wall, yelled something you didn’t mean deep down, it’s not because you’re BAD…
It’s because..
Most adult men these days never learned what a mature conflict looks like.
Most of us never had a model for a man that authentically expresses himself, his needs, and his emotions, and as a result…
We grow up thinking the only way we can satisfy our partner and get what we need is to sacrifice everything.
We learned an equation that has led to deep suffering for men in relationships:
that being a good man means sacrificing what you need and how you feel so others can feel good, safe, loved, and protected.
Whether we know it or not, we’re often using outdated and self-abusive tactics that we saw modeled to us growing up or realized was an unmet need in our families and communities.
Maturity is realizing that the strategies we learned growing up don’t work
… AND….
we have the power to fundamentally shift how we as men show up in our romantic and adult relationships.
We all want to be of service to the ones we love.
We understand that relationship take sacrifice…
But we don’t want to feel like we have to sacrifice everything all the time just to keep the peace.
If this is how you’re feeling you need to hear this:
You can change your relationship right now.
The work you’ll do in this course is the missing ingredient for so many men whose partners leave because they never learn how to address these problems.
This is what men who are terrified of being alone need to do in order to actually stop feeling alone, even in relationship.
This is what men who are single can master to call in the partner of their dreams.
I’ve created this offering because now more than ever, the world needs men that are equipped to lead with both power and gentleness.
We’ve forgotten how powerful our relationships can be — how they can inspire us to become the best versions of ourselves.
This is not just about giving you your energy, your loving relationship, and your time back, it’s about giving you more resources to do the work you’re on this planet to do: to be of service in the way your children and their children need you to be of service — in your work, your family, your love, and in yourself.
And here’s the best part: there is absolutely NO RISK.
Because here’s my promise to you:
In 21 days, I’ll give you everything you need to
transform your relationship.
And if it doesn’t work?
I’ll give you your money back.
Seriously.
If you’re unsure if this is right for you, I want to make it really simple and easy to try.
My goal is to help people experience the power of growth and surrender in love, so…
If you go through this course for 3 weeks and haven’t gotten what you want out of it, I’m offering a 100% refund guaranteed if you have done the journaling exercises.
That’s it. Just send me a screenshot of the completed books and I’ll send the money right back to you. No fuss, no hard feelings.
What You’ll Get in This 21-Day Course
With just 3-hours of coaching over 3 weeks + self-paced reflection and meditations, you’ll be able to…
✅Change the dynamics in your conflicts so YOU can be heard and supported without sacrificing your needs or desire to show up for her
✅Understand why it’s so hard for her to hold space for you and learn to finally receive this key ingredient in your relationship
✅Identify how you can EXPAND your capacity to be of highest service without sacrificing your time, energy, and resources until you’re exhausted and resenting her
✅Experience more curiosity and openness in conflict so you both use it as a means to deepen your connection and feel heard, appreciated, and supported
✅Cultivate the skills to know, hold, and communicate your boundaries without being rejected or abandoned
✅Stay clear, present, and calm in your body, even in conflict
✅Earn her trust so you don’t feel controlled or micromanaged, and experience more freedom in your life, career, and relationships
PLUS you’ll receive:
✨ Bonus LIVE Q+A sessions
✨ Access to a private group chat just for Founding Members with your brothers going through the same process
✨ Lifetime access with just this one small initial investment
(NOTE: I’m offering this at the lowest investment it will ever be for men who join NOW and become founding members).
Every great relationship will challenge you to step into a version of yourself that isn’t comfortable, that’s new, that’s hard…. That will make you question things about your life that can feel terrifying.
Sometimes we abandon relationships that can help us achieve our highest vision for our lives because it can be so intense to move toward love when it’s not easy…
Your relationships next evolution starts with your decision to embrace the challenge you’re experiencing right now.
❌ No more sleepless nights with flaky resolution
❌ No more wasted therapy sessions (make them actually count!)
❌ No more band-aid solutions that don’t fix the real problem and leave you depleted
Become a Founding Member of
21-Days: Service Over Sacrifice
& Take Back Your Relationship.
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Doors close on APRIL 8.
If you’re tired of feeling unseen, unheard, and stuck in the same cycles, this is your chance to make a real shift.
Click below to join now. Risk-free. You have nothing to lose.
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Service Over Sacrifice: 21-Days to Change Your Relationship
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Imagine tackling the hardest problems in your relationship and trusting you'll be heard and respected in the process. If you feel like you're doing everything you can in your relationship, and it never seems to be enough for her... If you're tired of trying to keep the peace and enduring blow up after blow up, feeling disrespected and unappreciated in the process... This course is for you. In 21-days, I'll help you transform conflicts from the inside out, giving you back the love you want.
✓ 3 LIVE and recorded teaching calls
✓ 3 LIVE and recorded Q+A sessions
✓ Game-changing journaling and meditation prompts
✓ Exclusive Founding Member discount w/ lifetime access
✓ Be first to know about future offerings + savings
Meet your instructor
Dave Lishansky
Dave is a men’s work facilitator and relationship coach dedicated to reclaiming men’s sweetness and radical self-acceptance. Over the past two years, Dave co-founded and co-leads Purnima Clinic in Encinitas, where he developed his revolutionary relationship framework to help men be more present, courageous, and honest in their relationships so they can access the care and freedom they most desire.
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