STOP WASTING ENERGY ON RELATIONSHIP CONFLICTS THAT NEVER GET BETTER.
Countless men are struggling in romantic relationships and no one seems to understand WHY this is so common or how to fundamentally change the dynamic. Especially when conflicts have a tendency to blow up and never resolve or fully repair.
Well…
After many years and tens of thousands of dollars spent on therapy, coaching, men’s groups, retreats, study, and alternative practices, I’ve developed a simple and powerful 21-day process that actually works.
It’s built for men in committed relationships with women that are struggling to earn her respect, patience, compassion, and trust.
What does this look like?
⚠️ In a fight, she’ll say whatever she wants and blow up when you try to say your piece.
⚠️ When either of you are stressed, you feel like you don’t even get a second to think about what you want to say.
⚠️ If she’s hurt, she doesn’t care that you made a mistake, and you keep having to apologize 100 times or more.
⚠️ In general, you feel like everything you’re doing is being watched and judged, and you’ll probably be criticized for “doing it wrong” later.
And if you’re trying to fix one or more of these issues in your relationship, I want you to know that it can change if YOU take action.
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After leading men’s circles and working with men and couples in relationship for years, I’ve discovered something I don’t think anyone has actually addressed effectively. And it’s this:
The real reason your relationship feels so hard sometimes is because…
As a boy, you probably learned to prioritize others at the expense of your own wellbeing…
and the strategies you used as a boy don’t help you as a man in relationship:
🛑 Sucking it up and staying silent? Doesn't change anything.
🛑 Pretending her words don’t hurt and just moving on? Makes you resentful.
🛑Running away when she loses control? Gets you nowhere.
🛑 Blowing up because you can’t take anymore? Only makes things worse.
🛑Sacrificing your needs while enduring criticism and disrespect? Keeps you in the same cycle.
Your romantic relationship doesn’t have to be this way, and you have the power to change it YOURSELF, right now.
If what I’ve described is even close to what your relationship is like, you’re being initiated into partnership in a way that most men are too afraid to try.
Most men just default to using the skills they learned as boys — to “suck it up, stop being a pussy, and deal” — especially when things are getting hard and their loving partner suddenly isn’t acting so kind.
It’s why divorce rates are so high.
It’s why men struggle to date.
It’s why we are where we are collectively, as a society.
And here you are, doing what you’ve always done in relationships and expecting a different outcome…
Sacrificing your time, money, and resources so others can feel good and loved DOESN’T NEED TO COME at the expense of your needs, freedom, and well-being.
Is it actually a mystery why things feel so hard sometimes?
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Imagine tackling the hardest problems in your relationship and trusting you'll be heard and respected in the process. If you feel like you're doing everything you can in your relationship, and it never seems to be enough for her... If you're tired of trying to keep the peace and enduring blow up after blow up, feeling disrespected and unappreciated in the process... This course is for you. In 21-days, I'll help you transform conflicts from the inside out, giving you back the love you want.
Meet your instructor
Dave Lishansky
Dave is a men’s work facilitator and relationship coach dedicated to reclaiming men’s sweetness and radical self-acceptance. Over the past two years, Dave co-founded and co-leads Purnima Clinic in Encinitas, where he developed his revolutionary relationship framework to help men be more present, courageous, and honest in their relationships so they can access the care and freedom they most desire.
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